Confront2026-09-14T21:10:42+00:00

Fierce Confront · Difficult conversation training

Address difficult issues while strengthening working relationships.

A deadline keeps slipping. A colleague’s behavior is affecting the team. You know something needs to be said, but you do not want to damage the relationship. Fierce Confront gives leaders a practical model for naming the issue, hearing the other person’s perspective and agreeing on what needs to change.

What conversation is your team putting off?

Tell us where leaders are struggling to address an issue. A Fierce advisor can help you explore how Confront fits your team and your development priorities.

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The workplace problem

The issue stays when the conversation waits

You soften the feedback. Drop another hint. Decide to wait until things are less busy.

Meanwhile, teammates work around the problem. Expectations stay unclear, and frustration builds on both sides. The person involved may not even know how their behavior is affecting the work.

A direct conversation gives you a chance to explain the issue and find out what you are missing. You can be clear about the impact and still be open to a different perspective. Fierce Confront helps leaders prepare for that exchange and move it toward an agreement about what happens next.

Part of the Fierce Conversations® methodology
created by Susan Scott.

WHAT CHANGES AFTER FIERCE CONFRONT

What will leaders learn to do differently?

After the program, managers will be better equipped to:

Name the issue clearly

Describe the behavior or performance concern and why it needs attention.

Open the conversation with purpose

Prepare a focused opening that makes room for the other person’s perspective.

Stay engaged through reactions

Work through defensiveness or deflection while keeping the issue in view.

Agree on what changes next

Move beyond airing frustration toward a clear agreement.

Method overview

How does Fierce Confront work?

Participants examine the cost of avoiding a conversation and five common confrontation errors. They then learn a model that takes them from preparation to a new agreement.

  1. 01

    Prepare the opening

    Develop a 60-second opening statement that brings the issue into focus and starts the exchange.

  2. 02

    Engage in the conversation

    Hear the other person’s perspective and practice navigating difficult reactions.

  3. 03

    Move toward resolution

    Work through what you have learned together and identify what needs to change.

  4. 04

    Create a new agreement

    Clarify the commitments that come out of the conversation.

The 60 seconds refers to the opening statement. The conversation itself needs room for listening, questions and resolution.

Audience

Who is Fierce Confront for?

For leaders and colleagues who need to address an issue directly and keep working together afterward.

Managers addressing performance

Discuss missed expectations or recurring behavior before it becomes an accepted pattern.

Colleagues working across teams

Address a difficult handoff, repeated interruption or broken commitment with the person involved.

HR and learning leaders

Help managers build the confidence and skills to have conversations they have been postponing.

Case Study

Make room for the conversations people are avoiding

At CHRISTUS Health, compassion had become confused with avoiding difficult conversations. Some leaders held back feedback, leaving employees unsure about their performance and reluctant to share their own perspectives.

CHRISTUS partnered with Fierce on leadership training that included confrontation, coaching, delegation and team conversations. Leaders gained a shared approach that the organization reinforced through other training and development programs.

“The number one improvement since partnering with Fierce is the creation of a common language where people can understand principles and apply them.”

Scott Hopkins
Director of Leadership Development, CHRISTUS Health

Title at the time of the case study.
This case study describes a broader leadership initiative that included Fierce confrontation training.

How Fierce delivers

Flexible delivery. Practical application.

Choose the format that fits how your people work and learn. A Fierce advisor can help you choose a format and plan how Confront fits into your organization’s learning path.

In person

Facilitated learning that gives people space to practice, reflect and work through real organizational challenges together.

Virtual

Live, interactive sessions designed to build skills across distributed teams without sacrificing participation or application.

On demand

Flexible learning that supports individual development, reinforcement and broader access across the organization.

Build the foundation first, when needed

Start with shared conversation skills

Organizations that want leaders to share a common approach to important conversations can begin with Fierce Foundations. A Fierce advisor can help you decide how to sequence Foundations and Confront for your team.

Frequently asked questions

What organizations want to know

Still deciding whether Fierce Confront fits your team? A Fierce advisor can help.

Does confrontation have to be confrontational?2026-09-14T21:03:00+00:00

It does not have to be an argument. In Fierce Confront, the aim is to address an issue clearly and understand the other person’s perspective. You bring a concern to the conversation while remaining open to information that may change how you see it. That gives both people something more useful to work with than blame or hints.

What kinds of issues can we address?2026-09-14T21:02:38+00:00

The program focuses on behavioral, attitudinal and performance issues. In practice, that could mean repeated interruptions, missed commitments or work that does not meet an agreed expectation. Start with a specific example of what happened and its impact. A broad label such as “bad attitude” gives the other person much less to respond to.

What is the 60-second opening statement?2026-09-14T21:02:18+00:00

It is the opening of the conversation, not a promise to resolve the issue in one minute. Preparing a concise opening helps you make the concern clear before inviting the other person’s perspective. The rest of the model supports engaging in the exchange, moving toward resolution and creating a new agreement.

What if the other person denies the issue or gets defensive?2026-09-14T21:01:58+00:00

Confront includes guidance for navigating difficult reactions. A practical starting point is to return to the specific example, ask what the other person sees differently and listen for information you may have missed. You can acknowledge their perspective while remaining clear about the concern. The goal is a useful exchange, not winning a dispute about who is right.

What if we have already discussed the problem before?2026-09-14T21:01:36+00:00

Be specific about the earlier agreement and what has happened since. Ask what prevented follow-through and clarify what needs to happen now. A repeated issue may reveal an unclear expectation, an obstacle or a commitment that has not been kept. Understanding that difference helps you decide the next step.

How is Confront different from Feedback?2026-09-14T21:01:16+00:00

Feedback builds the habit of sharing and receiving observations regularly. Confront provides a focused model for addressing a difficult behavioral or performance issue and working toward a new agreement. They complement each other: regular feedback can bring concerns to light, while Confront helps you work through an issue that needs a direct conversation.

Should we start with Foundations before Confront?2026-09-14T21:00:58+00:00

We recommend starting with Foundations to establish a shared approach to conversations. It gives your team a base to build on when addressing difficult issues. An advisor can help you decide how to sequence the programs based on your group’s experience and goals.

Can we take Confront online?2026-09-14T21:00:40+00:00

Yes. Fierce offers virtual and on-demand learning alongside in-person delivery. An advisor can confirm current options and help you choose the approach that fits your team.

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Give your team a clear approach to addressing difficult issues and agreeing on what comes next. Talk with a Fierce advisor about bringing Confront to your organization.

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